Before moving to Shenzhen with her husband in 2004, Judene
Irvine had wondered what she would do here. Now, as the organizer
of a Shekou volunteer group that visits orphanages regularly, she
finds much joy in helping others.
"I'd been working out of the family all my life, chiefly on
administrative jobs in colleges and universities. When my husband
first moved from Pennsylvania to Hong Kong, before opening two
plants in Shenzhen, he had hoped I could accompany him on trips
around Asia, since he travels a lot on business," said Irvine, an
elegant woman in her early 50s.
For some expats, life in another country is a long vacation.
With enough money to spend and no regular job, they go shopping,
visit the spa, gossip and read magazines.
"I can stay on a vacation for at most three weeks. When there is
nothing meaningful to do, the boredom will kill me," Irvine
said.
Her husband has found that she is even busier than him.
"My mandarin tutor once told me that her mother was so happy
helping out at orphanages, and that old lady introduced me to the
volunteer group founded in 1997."
People come and they go. Presently there are 35 volunteers in
Irvine's group.
For the past two years, Irvine has been visiting a Bao'an
orphanage every Wednesday and a welfare center in Meilin every
Tuesday afternoon and Friday morning.
"Though I do not speak much Chinese, I found no barrier in
communication with the kids, since love is a universal language.
When you come regularly to be with them, give them a huddle, take
them to a walk, and play games with them, they know they are cared
for. I bring them toys. But the most important is to return to them
and build up a relationship. Grandparents can be strangers to kids
if they don't come to visit," she said.
"My husband is very supportive. His company Southco has a driver
to take us to the Meilin orphanage twice a week. He said I am the
person who is doing the important thing, and he is just earning
money to help pay the bills."
Irvine also works to raise money and arrange for handicapped
orphans to get treatment.
"There's a boy, aged 4, who was born without ears. We raised
money to give him an operation that opened up a hole in his right
ear and implanted a tube to link to the inside canals. In six
months, the doctors will give him another operation in the left
ear. You just can't imagine how happy he is to get back his
hearing. The other day I noticed him striking a toy hammer to
create some noise, and looking around proudly to other kids as if
saying 'do you hear that sound? I do,'" she said.
She has found a company to support a young girl with artificial
legs until adulthood.
Irvine's dream is to open a school in the Bao'an orphanage to
give all children, including the mentally handicapped, an
education. "If they can be taught to do simple things, it will help
them fit in society and give them hope."
"There is no end in sight when I will leave Shenzhen and stop
doing this, as not everyone has the opportunity to be involved
personally in changing others' lives," she said.
(Shenzhen Daily April 17, 2007)
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